estrangement

"She was really testing me,” Alves said of McConaughey's mom, who he was once estranged from.
"Our parents are the people we’re supposed to love and trust the most. To have no contact with them? Inconceivable."
"What I needed was to be mothered. But, because I didn’t trust my own mother, I decided I’d have to do it myself."
There is no easy way to say, "I'm estranged from my mother." It's even harder to say, "I've cut my mother out of my life," clarifying that you are the one who has severed the bond.
The two recently reconnected after three decades apart.
The "Almost Famous" actor and her brother Oliver Hudson are talking about their decadeslong estrangement from their father.